Wednesday, March 29, 2006

Foundlings

Many events: A tour of Guangzhou including a stop at a local temple where the babies were blessed by a Buddhist monk, then the next day a trip with three other families to the orphanage in Yangchun, and a visit to where each of the foundling babies were abandoned.

Lillia was left in a cardboard box in front of the Yangchun insurance building; one baby was left in front of Middle School Number 2, one was left at Middle School Number 4, and one was left in front of the local hospital. Each of the mothers abandoned their babies in public places so that they would be found quickly, though this is not without risk, as abandoning your baby is of course illegal.

The Pearl River from our 11th floor room on a typical day. At least the rain has stopped.

Suzanne and Lillia in front of said window.

Lillia and Tom in front of the temple just following the blessing.

Us in front of the orphanage at Yangchun.

The insurance building where Lillia (AKA Chun Hua Lu) was found. All of the babies from our orphanage were named "Chun Hua _____". Her first name was randomly chosen from the dictionary, per her caregivers. They say there are just too many babies to do otherwise.

The three of us in front of the insurance building.

Chinese women who stopped at our bus to admire Lillia, who has apparently much to recommend her.

Landscape near Yangchun. There is a national geologic park there reminiscent of Guilin.

A sign at the entrance to our local park next to the Pearl River and the hotel. Many people in the park practising Tai Chi, ballroom dancing, singing, fishing (!). Not much spitting here but in other parts of the city it was very much a pastime.


Some pictures of Lillia and Tom at breakfast this morning.

Tomorrow (Friday) we are off to the American Consulate with all the other parents and babies to take our oath, then flying to Hong Kong and San Francisco on Saturday.

Love, Tom and Suzanne

Saturday, March 25, 2006

More Pictures

Some more pictures, all here in Guangzhou, all at the White Swan Hotel where we are staying, except for the last, which is of us with Lillia's caregivers from the orphanage. Click on any image to make it larger.













Friday, March 24, 2006

Pictures of Lillia

Some Photos:




The Past 3 Days

This is Suzanne, writing on Friday night. Lillia is asleep. It's been hard to find the time to write, we've been so busy.

We are so in love with this amazing little girl. All the wonderful things they said in her profile are true. First of all, she is the most beautiful baby in China. She is also extremely adaptable. Each day just gets better and better. We got her on Wednesday, and that was a rough day for her, as she had spent 5 hours on the road from Yangchun. That day she was kind of a rapid-cycling bipolar. She would look up at my strange gwailo (foreign devil) face and cry and scream as if I had flames shooting out of my nose. After 10 minutes or so of this she would completely calm down and would be crawling around on the bed, playing with toys, babbling, laughing, clapping her hands, and flashing me the most winsome smile I've ever seen. Then she would suddenly lose it, shrieking like Godzilla rampaging through Tokyo.

Yesterday was much better, with a lot less crying and a lot more giggling. She seems to be thriving on the non-stop two-on-one attention she's getting. She started taking a lot more formula (none of the babies fed well on the first day). She also slept soundly all night, though she does move around a lot. In the middle of the night, I felt little feet walking up my chest, and when I woke up this morning her head was near my knees and her feet were pressed against the pillow.

Today was better still. She accepted food from a spoon for the first time, and did a little cruising. She seemed absolutely delighted with us, smiling and laughing almost non-stop. She only cried when we were doing terrible things to her, like giving her a bath or handing her over to the pediatrician for a checkup.

We ate in tonight, as usual. Tom went out and foraged for food while Lillia exhausted herself with rambunctious play. By the time he got back, she had conked out.

More about our exciting life later.

Thursday, March 23, 2006

Mei-Mei!

We have had Lillia now for a bit more than 24 hours, and she became officially ours today. It is hard to express in meaningful words how happy we are feeling. Instead here is a picture of us moments after receiving her.



More pictures when the web site stops acting up. Mei-Mei (her Chinese nickname meaning little girl) is healthy and transitioning well.

Love, Tom and Suzanne

Tuesday, March 21, 2006

The Trip

All trips begin with adrenaline and chaos. I spent the morning assembling the crib, replacing a stair rail to the basement, and fitting and placing the oak transition strip to the nursery. Being busy supposedly keeps you from going out of your mind, but in my case it wasn’t working.

Then came loading our suitcases for the last time. Looking for those camera cables to download images to the laptop, repacking the 7 pounds of See’s candy, seven gifts for officials with undoubted sweet tooths.

Then the car trip to the airport’s remote lot, with its dust-devils and loping coyotes, and its shuttle-bus driver who insists on stopping at every single pick-up point, whether there are waiting passengers or not (and chatting with all other bus drivers he comes across, a lonely socialite trapped in a world he never made).

Finally we make our plane: we flew economy via United to San Francisco, ate sushi at the airport and waited 4 hours, then flew economy again (First class, Business class, Underclass) via Cathay Pacific to Hong Kong, somehow losing all of Friday the 17th to our trip and the International Date Line.

Hong Kong is a tremendously fascinating town with a true sense of public architecture and space. Its reminds me in some ways of San Francisco (where do you think that city’s Chinatown came from?) and in some ways of Tokyo (canyons made of buildings and individual structures sometimes the equivalent of visual screams).

The area of town that you walk through determines very much whether you feel you are in the first or third world: the skyscrapers in the central city (whether Kowloon or Hong Kong Island) give a gleaming sense of order and security that any business or government wants to project. Then there is the chaos of North Point, where butchers grab fat birds out of cages and slaughter them to order for customers, and freshly filleted fish sit on ice baths on display tables, their red hearts still attached, still beating (I have pictures).

But the day we arrived was Kwan Yin’s birthday, and we made our pilgrimage to two temples and asked for mercy from this goddess of mercy: mercy for ourselves, mercy for our daughter. There were hundreds of supplicants and even more coils and sticks of burning incense, driving the temperature of the temples.

We are staying in the YMCA on Salisbury Road, in a suite overlooking the harbor, upgraded because the room we had booked was not available. 200 meters away, up Nathan road, is Chungking Mansions, a huge chaotic structure full of flop houses, and cheap restaurants, and south-asian men selling cameras and knock-off Rolexes. Suzanne, my wife stayed there last time she was here over 20 years ago. Its only change really one of time—it is seedier and more decrepit. But no opium dens that I could find.

We found a noodle shop that probably can’t be beat near the corner of Canton street and Haiphong Road, and there is a smoothy shop around the corner that sells dragon fruit juice at HK$10 a glass.

Today we take a ferry to Macau and tomorrow a flight to Guangzhou, where the following day we will meet Mei-Mei for the first time.

Then life (everyone tells us) as we have known it ends and a new life (hopefully better, always hopefully) begins.


Suzanne, playing with her food.



Smokey temples in Hong Kong on Kwan Yin's birthday.


Suzanne, radiant, on our way up Victoria Peak.


Us in front of a temple in Macau.

The real news: we will meet Mei-Mei for the first time in less than 24 hours!

Tom

Sunday, March 12, 2006

The Road to China

We have our travel papers and are leaving for China in just a few days, first stopping in Hong Kong (translates to Fragrant Harbor), then on to Guangzhou where we will meet Mei-Mei for the first time.

Gotcha Day is March 22nd. We will try to visit the orphanage if we can.

Pictures soon, we hope.

Wish us luck!

Tom and Suzanne